Alexander Urtula and Inyoung You.Photo: Suffolk County District Attorney’s Office
The girlfriend of theBoston College senior who jumped from a parking garage hours before graduatingin May told authorities she tried to stop him.
According to law enforcement officials, Inyoung You, 21, told police she rushed to the roof of the parking garage to save her boyfriend,22-year-old Alexander Urtula,before he jumped, theBoston Globereports. However, authorities believe You was abusive towards Urtula and had urged him to kill himself in thousands of text messages uncovered from their investigation.
You faces a charge of involuntary manslaughter in Urtula’s death. On Tuesday, Rollins said more details of the investigation would be revealed at You’s arraignment, theGlobe reports.
In August, You withdrew from Boston College and returned to her home country of South Korea. TheGlobereports she grew up in Washington state. It is unclear who is representing You at this time.
Rollins said in her statement she believes You will willingly return to the United States.The Globereports theextradition process could take time.
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Two months before his death, the couple had exchanged 75,000 texts with more than half being from You. On the day of Urtula’s death, You had tracked his phone and was on the parking garage roof with him when he jumped, according to the statement.
You had “complete and total control” over her boyfriend, Rollins said in her statement. Revealing that in her messages, You would allegedly tell Urtula to “go kill himself, to “go die” and that “she, his family, and the world would be better off without him.”
Rollins said that the friends and classmates of both You and Urtula witnessed the “unrelenting abuse.”
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source: people.com
