The news culture medium both here in London and in the States made much of the encounter between Michelle Obama and the Queen , during which the Queen put a provisional hand at Michelle ’s back and Michelle responded by putting her arm around the diminutive Queen .
The interchange lasted all of 10 seconds , but The Hug that Was Heard " ˜Round the World was enough to keep news outlet in stories and op - eds for days . And for good rationality : forcible displays of emotion , of whatever variety , have long been no - no ’s in Royal protocol . And touching the poove " “ well , there was a clock time when your question could have been on a pike outside the Tower .
Buckingham Palace has react with statements that Michelle Obama break no rules whatsoever , that the only real rule is to be polite , respectful and courteous . But that ’s not exactly true and certainly has n’t been historically . So here ’s what to do should you ever be in a position to make the conversance of the Queen , the Prince , or any other Royal :
Introductions
Firstly , do n’t talk until you ’re spoken to . But after that , when you forgather the Queen , it is accustomed to direct her as " Your Majesty" at first , " Ma’am" thereafter , and then , " Your Majesty" again upon rent your leave .
Bow, curtsey, or a handshake?
citizen of the United Kingdom and Commonwealth land , upon meeting the Queen , should , in the case of men , give a short bow from the mind and shoulders , or , in the case of women , curtsey . Butas Americans , because of that whole Revolution thing , we do n’t have to bow or curtsey " “ a gentle handclasp will do just ticket .
It ’s also customary to bring a gift for the Queen ; the Obamas take an iPod featuring video footage of her visit to the States in 2007 and a rare musical songbook sign by Richard Rodgers of Rodgers and Hammerstein , incite all form of discussion about the worthiness of the gift . By comparison , in 2007 , the Bushes give her an incised boxful from Tiffany ’s , a leather document typesetter’s case containing copies of historical document from the National Archives , and an inscribed cowgirl statue , a reproduction of the one suffer in front of the National Cowgirl Museum .
Tea with the Queen
Touching the Queen
While it ’s not technically forbidden , incident of touching the Queen beyond just a polite handclasp are very few and far between . One of the most memorable was back in 1991 , when Alice Frazier , a then 67 - twelvemonth - old resident of Washington , DC public housing , hug the poove during the monarch ’s 13 - day visit to the States and invited her to stay for a lunch of southern fried chicken and murphy salad . The Queen courteously worsen .
Ms. Frazier ’s squeeze was certainly not politically motivated , but other incident of Queen - touching have had some measure of political import ascribe to them . In 1992 , Australian prime minister Paul Keating placed his hand on the Queen ’s back , presumably to direct her to her seat , however , the gesture was by British medium as congresswoman of Australia ’s deep - sit down republican desires . For it , the Prime Minister was dubbed the " Lizard of Oz . “ In 2000 , another Australian premier , John Howard , allegedly committed the same offensive , a charge he heatedly refuse .
Leaving the Queen
It is considered impolite to turn one ’s back on the Queen " “ anyone who ’s ascertain the HBO miniseries John Adams may think John Adams ( or rather , Paul Giammatti as John Adams ) gather King George and the ungainly effort at formalities . In general , one does n’t have to be quite so torture and it ’s not an only voiceless and degenerate rule .
What to do if you meet the Royal dogs
More often , however , it ’s royal in - fighting that seems to get the serious of the dogs : paper of the imperial blackguard literally tearing one another to shreds run to coat from time to sentence and , in 1991 , the Queen herself support a bite to the deal requiring three stitch after endeavor to breach up a corgi battle .
With that in mind , it ’s best to draw exit the dogs gingerly , with respect , and to not make jokes about bad - behavior . Avoid making eye contact with the dog , let him sniff your hands first before petting , and never turn your back on an wild dog .
If you ’ve ever marvel what life is like for the Royal multitude of corgis , checker out this video cheekily cover frominside the dog house .
