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Ayesha Curry attends the Miu Miu Womenswear S/S 2023 show as part of Paris Fashion Week at Palais d’Iena on October 04, 2022 in Paris, France.

Ayesha Curryis sharing her secrets to building confidence.

“I think confidence is something we all struggle with from time to time,” Ayesha, 34, tells PEOPLE exclusively.

The mother of three, who is married toGolden State Warriors star Stephen Curry, admits, “It’s definitely been a journey for me.”

And as a successfulrestauranteur, Ayesha is always on the go, which makes balancing her family and professional life a bit more challenging. “The first step is accepting that balance doesn’t really exist,” says Ayesha.

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HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA - JULY 20: (L-R) Ryan Carson Curry, Ayesha Curry, Riley Elizabeth Curry, and Stephen Curry attend the 2022 ESPYs at Dolby Theatre on July 20, 2022 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Leon Bennett/Getty Images)

“We’re all just out here doing our best. Sometimes I get it right, sometimes I don’t — but I continue to show up for the things and people that matter and that counts for a lot,” she adds.

“I also like to say ‘it takes a village,’ and that’s true in family and in business. I’ve been fortunate to be able to surround myself with people who share the same values, and that ‘village’ has allowed me to be at my best and helps make everything happen.”

With the help of Square, Ayesha now wants to help other Black and Latino entrepreneurs build their village.

“Starting a business is tough for anyone, regardless of their background. But in America today, we’re seeing Black and Latino entrepreneurs opening businesses at a record-setting pace and then facing higher closure rates as a result of the systemic challenges that come their way,” she explains.

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Ayesha, Steph, Riley, Ryan, and Canon Curry

As a mother to three children, Ayesha says being a mentor and using her platform to advocate for programs like Forward is important to her.

“I want my kids to know that in our family, we lift as we climb. When you’re in a position to uplift others, you go for it.”

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Ayesha and Stephen share three young children: Riley, 10,Ryan, 7, andCanon, 4.

In August, the couple celebrated 11 years of marriage with a trip to France.

“11. My Ish! Loving this journey with you more and more,” Steph captioned hisInstagram post. “Already blessed in so many ways and who knows what’s next. That’s the best part! Through it all- we keep growing and loving each other. Next chapter begins…I Love You!”

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Ayesha noted that the couple are “more than halfway to 20 [years of marriage]” in herInstagrampost.

source: people.com